“If you want a happier family,
create, refine and retell the story of your family’s positive moments and your
ability to bounce back from the difficult ones. That act alone may increase the
odds that your family will thrive for many generations to come.”
– Bruce Felier, “The Stories That Bind Us," NYTimes.com
If I were a
single lady, I’d be running, fast, in my Camouflage running sneaks and cute, little, ducky top, to Somewhere, Louisiana to go hang out with the hilarious,
giant-bearded, loveable Robertson family...... And I’d hope
to grab one of the fuzzy, family-member bachelors on the reality-TV-show-set
and call him my own.
Let the breeding begin!
If you
don’t know these guys, you should. Go, quickly, to the A&E channel and
flip, flip around until you find the burly, bushy group of guys with their
hands in their beards and their hearts on their sleeves.
This is
reality TV at it’s head scratching best (are they REALLY this funny?) about an
outdoorsy family from the back-woods turned millionaires, all from the patent
of a little, old duck-call.
After
reading a recent NYTimes article about the common theme of happy, successful
families and children, - thank you reader DS for sending it my way! - what
stood out was that when parents defined a strong family narrative about the ups
and downs of their family history with their kids, children had a stronger
sense of control in their lives, higher self-esteem, and the more they felt
their own family functioned well overall.
Which is
what Duck Dynasty expresses so successfully. It’s all about the Ups and Downs
of their family, with stories from founder Grandpa Phil about the first
duck-call he ever made whilst living in near-poverty, to the ‘Nam stories from
the most unbelievable star of the show Uncle Si, to the next generation of kids
coming up the ladder, who eschew the usual Dyansty daily Camo uniform for
designer jeans and fancy hair-cuts (ie: short.)
Their entire family history and daily highs and lows of life is being re-told on a reality-TV-show in a positive,
heartwarming way. So at the end of each episode, when the Robertson family of all
generations sits down for their mish-mosh family dinner and says grace, you
forgive them their foibles of deer-hunting and beaver dam shooting and fishing
illegally on Judge’s property then getting arrested, and you think: where can I
get me one of those bearded guys for myself.
Namaste
& Three Cheers, Everyone! -OM
For more info @ happy families: Bruce Felier's recently published book, "The Secrets of Happy Families: How to Improve Your Morning, Rethink Family Dinner, Fight Smart, Go Out and Play, and Much More."